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MENTORING, COACHING & DISCIPLING 

Biblical Mentoring, Coaching, & Discipling

The Bible places great emphasis on spiritual growth, guidance, and accountability, which is why mentoring, coaching, and discipling are important aspects of the Christian life. While these three concepts share similarities, they each serve a unique role in helping believers grow in faith, character, and purpose.

Biblical Mentoring – Guiding Through Wisdom and Experience

Mentoring in the Bible is about sharing wisdom, experience, and guidance to help someone grow spiritually, personally, and in their calling. A biblical mentor is usually a more mature believer who walks alongside a younger or less experienced Christian, offering encouragement, correction, and insight.

Examples of Biblical Mentoring:

🔹 Moses & Joshua – Moses mentored Joshua to become the next leader of Israel (Deuteronomy 31:7-8).
🔹 Elijah & Elisha – Elijah trained Elisha to continue his prophetic ministry (2 Kings 2:9-10).
🔹 Paul & Timothy – Paul mentored Timothy as a young pastor, instructing him in faith, leadership, and perseverance (2 Timothy 2:2).

📖 Titus 2:3-4 – “Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior… They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women.”

A biblical mentor helps others navigate life and faith challenges, offering wisdom based on scripture and experience.

Biblical Coaching – Helping Others Develop Their God-Given Potential

While mentoring focuses on guiding based on experience, coaching is about helping individuals unlock their potential and develop skills. Biblical coaching empowers and equips people to grow in their calling, encouraging them to seek God’s direction for their lives.

Principles of Biblical Coaching:

✅ Asking questions to help someone discover their purpose (Proverbs 20:5)
✅ Encouraging spiritual and personal growth (Hebrews 10:24)
✅ Providing accountability and challenge (Proverbs 27:17)

📖 Proverbs 20:5 – “The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.”

A biblical coach is like an encourager and strategist, helping others develop their gifts, set goals, and take action in alignment with God’s will.

Biblical Discipling – Teaching and Training in the Ways of Christ

Discipleship is more than mentorship or coaching—it is about leading someone into a deeper relationship with Christ and training them to live out their faith. Discipleship is a lifelong process of growing in obedience, faith, and Christlike character.

Jesus’ Example of Discipleship:

Jesus spent three years discipling the twelve apostles, teaching them through:
✔ Biblical instruction – Teaching the truth of God's Word (Matthew 5-7)
✔ Life-on-life training – Living and serving together (Mark 3:14)
✔ Modeling faith in action – Showing how to love, pray, and serve (John 13:12-15)
✔ Commissioning to make disciples – Sending them out to teach others (Matthew 28:19-20)

📖 Matthew 28:19-20 – “Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you.”

A disciple-maker not only teaches biblical truth but also models a Christ-centered life and helps others do the same.

Key Differences Between Mentoring, Coaching & Discipling

Category Focus Role of Leader Outcome
Mentoring Life experience, wisdom, and guidance Advisor and example Wisdom, character, and spiritual growth
Coaching Skill-building, goal-setting, and empowerment Encourager and guide Growth in gifts, purpose, and direction
Discipling Spiritual formation and Christlike living Spiritual leader and trainer Deep relationship with Christ and multiplication of disciples

 

Whether through mentoring, coaching, or discipling, Christians are called to invest in others, encourage spiritual growth, and equip believers to fulfill their God-given calling.

✔ Mentoring shares wisdom from experience.
✔ Coaching helps others discover and develop their gifts.
✔ Discipling trains others to follow Christ and make disciples.

All three play a valuable role in strengthening the Body of Christ. Who is God calling you to mentor, coach, or disciple today? 🙏✨

God’s Heart on Mentoring, Coaching & Discipling

Mentoring, coaching, and discipling are powerful ways God uses relationships to shape, strengthen, and equip His people. Throughout Scripture, we see God’s heart for investing in others, building them up in faith, and guiding them toward His purpose.

Mentoring: Walking Alongside Others in Wisdom

Mentoring is a biblical principle seen throughout the Bible. God calls His people to pass down wisdom and guidance from one generation to the next. Mature believers are to encourage and counsel those who are growing in faith.

  • “The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon... They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green, proclaiming, ‘The Lord is upright; He is my Rock, and there is no wickedness in Him.’” (Psalm 92:12–15)
  • “Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live... then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children.” (Titus 2:3–4)

Coaching: Encouraging and Equipping for Growth

Coaching focuses on helping others maximize their God-given potential, guiding them toward success in their calling. It involves encouragement, strategy, and motivation to help individuals fulfill their purpose.

  • “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” (Hebrews 10:24)
  • “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.” (Proverbs 15:22)

Discipling: Teaching and Transforming Lives

Discipleship is at the heart of Christ’s mission. Jesus called His followers to go and make disciples, investing deeply in others' spiritual growth. True discipleship leads to transformation, shaping hearts and lives to reflect Christ.

  • “Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.” (Matthew 28:19–20)
  • “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.” (1 Corinthians 11:1)

God desires for His people to pour into others, helping them grow in faith, wisdom, and purpose. Whether through mentoring, coaching, or discipling, we are called to encourage, equip, and empower others to walk in the fullness of His plan.

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What Are Common Goals for Growth?

Setting goals for personal growth is a great way to enhance various aspects of your life. Here are some common goals people often pursue:

Emotional Growth

  • Develop Emotional Intelligence: Improve your ability to understand and manage your emotions and those of others.
  • Practice Mindfulness: Incorporate mindfulness techniques to enhance self-awareness and reduce stress.

Physical Health

  • Regular Exercise: Set a goal to establish a consistent workout routine, whether it's daily walks, gym sessions, or group classes.
  • Nutrition Improvements: Focus on eating a balanced diet, trying new healthy recipes, or reducing processed foods.

Intellectual Growth

  • Read More: Aim to read a certain number of books each month or explore new genres.
  • Learn a New Skill: Take up a hobby or enroll in a course to develop a new skill, such as coding, cooking, or a new language.

Spiritual Growth

  • Deepen Your Faith: Engage in regular prayer, meditation, or study of spiritual texts.
  • Volunteer: Get involved in community service to foster a sense of purpose and connection.

Career Development

  • Set Career Milestones: Identify specific achievements you want to reach, such as a promotion or a new job role.
  • Networking: Expand your professional network by attending industry events or joining professional organizations.

Relationship Building

  • Improve Communication: Work on active listening skills and expressing your thoughts and feelings more openly.
  • Quality Time: Make a conscious effort to spend more quality time with family and friends.

Financial Growth

  • Budgeting: Create a budget to better manage your finances and savings.
  • Investing: Learn about investment opportunities and set goals for long-term financial stability.

Personal Development

  • Time Management: Implement strategies to improve productivity and make better use of your time.
  • Goal Setting: Regularly set and review personal goals to stay focused on your growth journey.

These goals can be tailored to fit your personal circumstances and aspirations. The key is to make them specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART).

  • Have a regular prayer life
  • Have an effective Bible study
  • Memorize and apply Scripture
  • Have a biblical worldview
  • Manage your money biblically
  • Have unshakable faith in God
  • Triumph over temptation
  • Share your faith with others
  • have a meaningful marriage
  • Grow through grief
  • Do meaningful mission work
  • Learn the art of leadership
  • Communicate with and/or confront others
  • Mentor others

Do you have a mentoring relationship with someone who is helping you grow in your spiritual walk? Are you helping someone else grow in their walk with Jesus? By choosing to develop relationships to help others grow, you follow Paul’s counsel to Timothy when he said,

“And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable men who will also be qualified to teach others.”  (2 Timothy 2:2)

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